Margaret Guthrie had a vision for how to celebrate her 80th birthday: returning to quilting, as a group, for a cause. Of course the cause will be Dining For Women. The center of the quilt features two women planting a tree, one older with white hair (!), the other with piles of African braids.
Twelve of us have been stitching. We enjoyed a cozy session at Weavers Way – stitching and sharing. Below is our second session hosted by Harriet.
The twelve squares that will comprise the borders are nearly done! Than comes borders, and ultimately a quilting bee hosted by HandCraft Workshop in Mt. Airy. That will be an open event. Stay tuned!
What a gift I received from you all at our 5th Birthday celebration on October 26th. Not only, through the hard work of so many, did we meet Karen Rowley’s Matching $5K grant, and receive a visit from both the DFW President, Beth Ellen Holimon, and our regional co-chair Peggy Smith, but there was a surprise presentation to me at the end, an astonishing treasure box created by our own Ellen Benson. This was to kindly acknowledge I started these three chapters. But there is a big caveat. I had a lot of help and the Dining For Model template. We have had great fun modifying it for our community.
I thought at first the gift from Ellen was a really fun plaque, but it was a box that opened with all kinds of special treasures inside. Indeed a labor of love all around.
Karen Rowley, Dining For Woman Matching Grant Philanthropist ~By Betsy Teutsch
Karen Rowley, a Chestnut Hiller active in Weavers Way Thursday Dining For Women chapter, is full of surprises: she herself is surprised to be a philanthropist. A retired nurse, she worked in the ICU while she and her husband Jim were raising their seven kids. From a humble Irish Catholic family and raised in parish and schools, she has evolved into a fierce advocate for global women. And she is a venture capitalist—an early backer of BioRealize, her daughter Karen’s biotech company incubated at PennDesign.
Karen’s Kensington family was large—her dad was one of 17 kids. As a student at Bishop McDevitt, Karen and her high-school sweetheart Jim were shaped by the social justice and spirit-of-service Catholicism of Dorothy Day along with Pope John XXIII’s Vatican II reforms.
Karen pursued her studies at Germantown School of Nursing when nursing programs were still stand-alone schools. At age 21, she was married to Jim and running an ICU. They settled in West Philly and she went to work at Penn. They enjoyed their exposure to international students and faculty and expanding their worldview.
Over the next eleven years they welcomed Monica, Rachel, Alice, Karen, Hannah, Abigail, and Peter and moved back to Mt. Airy, then Andorra, and ultimately to Chestnut Hill. Instrumental in organizing St. Vincent’s Soup Kitchen, they remain close to Brother Al Smith. Jim and Karen now have 11 grandchildren. While each grandchild is miraculous, grandson Marcus has a special status. His mother Alice was one of the first melanoma patients treated with immunotherapy; Marcus is among the United States’ first offsprings born to immunotherapy treatment survivors.
Karen joined Dining For Women at the invitation of Debbie Britt, a leader of Abington’s DFW. Karen was profoundly touched by that month’s program. The grant recipients had learned English and written thank you notes to DFW, explaining the ways the DFW-financed program had given them hope and helped them improve their lives.
At that very first meeting Karen heard about an upcoming DFW trip to Kenya visiting grant recipients as well as sight-seeing. Karen had only traveled abroad once, to Ireland, but had a lifelong dream of seeing Africa. Her daughter Alice was in remission from grueling melanoma treatment… it was Karen’s time to embark on an adventure.
That trip cemented Karen’s passion for Dining For Women’s work and also yielded a bonus daughter, Caroline Kashinian. This bright, determined Maasai participant in a DFW-funded school program dreamed of a nursing career. They bonded instantly. Karen had received a scholarship to nursing school and she was thrilled to help Caroline pursue her goals. Fast forward: Caroline has been admitted to the University of Nairobi’s Institute of Tropical and Infectious Diseases.
She is pleased to serve as a role model, encouraging other women to share their resources with global women for whom it can have so much impact. Karen continues, “We all have a purpose in this world. I did not expect to find myself in a position to be a philanthropist. When you have an opportunity, you should go for it. You get back far more than you give.”
Karen has stepped forward to celebrate Weavers Way Dining For Women’s Fifth Birthday with a $5,000 Matching Grant. Karen observes that women have always provided family and community sweat equity—working quietly without recognition. She admires this work, and surely does it herself, but she thinks it is important for women to stop being shy about public philanthropy and step forward. Let’s face it: giving money commands attention!
Here’s how to contribute to our 5th Birthday/ $5000 Match!
We are so grateful to Karen Rowley for matching all contributions to the Dining For Women 13th Month Fund up to $5,000.
DFW’s 13th Month Fund is DFW’s Annual Appeal. We raise money for one grantee each month of the year; the 13th Month campaign funds infrastructure so we have the resources to run our wonderful organization, expand our membership, and grow our impact.
Karen’s match will run through December 31, 2016, but our dream is to raise $5,000 to celebrate our 5th birthday and announce a total at our October 26th celebration.
- The easiest way to contribute is by credit card at our dedicated link:
- You can pay by check and give the check to your Chapter Leader. Checks need to say “13th Month Fund” in the memo line. (You can mail your check to your chapter leader if you’re not able to attend.)
Please do not mail checks directly to Dining For Women; they are not set up to credit checks to the Karen Rowley Match.
- You don’t have to be a Dining For Women participant to donate! We encourage you to invite others to attend the 5th Birthday and contribute by using the link above!
Questions? Lynn Doerr (Chapter Leader/Monday) will be happy to answer – LotusLassie@gmail.com
Please save Wednesday, October 26, for our 5th Birthday Celebration.
Plus chapter dinners.
|2nd Monday Dinners||3rd Tuesday Dinners||2nd Thursday Dinners|
|September 12||September 20||September 8|
|October 10||October 18||October 13|
|November 14||November 15||November 10|
|December 12||December 20||December 8|
At last night’s meeting of Thursday WWDFW, we reflected on the season’s graduations. We usually start our dinners with a leading question. Last evening’s was “What would you tell your young graduating self if you could go back in time?”
The responses were varied–some quite general, others very specific. Collectively, we have learned alot over the years.
“Don’t worry about things that might happen. Usually they don’t. And the things that do happen were not things you worried about. Be in the moment.”
“Your friends will still be your friends, time will not change that.”
“No one is perfect. Don’t beat yourself up for mistakes; stop being a perfectionist.”
“The world is big. Talk to lots of people. Learn about them. Miracles happen.”
“You don’t need to get married and have children so young.”
“Don’t put down your guitar!”
“No one is paying much attention to what you do. You need to answer to yourself.”
“With luck, life is long. There are many phases and stages and each of them ends, and brings another.”
“Don’t conflate your own fears with bad stuff that happens to you.”
“Don’t worry what other people think of you.”
“Stay young–dance on the table if you feel like it.”
“Be on time.”
“Don’t worry if you try something and you’re not good at it. Keep at it and in time you will get better at it.”
Congrats to all, onto the next stages!
|Second Monday, March 14||Third Tuesday, March 15||Second Thurs., March 10|
|Monday, April 11||Tuesday,April 19||Thursday, April 14|
|Monday, May 9||Tuesday, May 17||Thursday, May 12|
|Monday, June 13||Tuesday, June 21||Thursday, June 9|
|Monday, July 11||Tuesday, July 19||Thursday, July 14|